Love Next Door describes two friends who almost miss their chance for love | By Carl Ackerman (Winter 2025)
Seok-ryu Bae (So-min Jung), we learn in the first minutes of this K-drama, went to the University of California at Berkeley. It’s a minor point (tiny, one could say) in the story arc of this series, but it is a departure from similar dramas about 20-somethings that describe the pedigree of characters by their association with elite private U.S. colleges and universities.
It is, in fact, the first time I have heard a non-Ivy League institution mentioned in a Korean drama. However, this state university in fact, has a rich history that is a part of the American cultural fabric as the site of the free speech sit-ins of the ‘60s that sparked a national anti-war movement, and as a powerful public institution built by the taxpayers, not the American elite. It is, however, not the kind of history that would usually get much attention in South Korea, so this rom-com, for me, has an interesting egalitarian edge. It also made me curious about the personality of the character who chose to be educated there.
Seok-ryu gets her all-important managerial training at Cal, which lands her a job with a global company, Greip. In her choice of education and other ways, Seok-ryu was the kind of student, and is in the present-day of the drama, the kind of person, who does not fit the mold of the up-and-coming career professional in South Korea.
In the many flashbacks, the viewer learns of her dedication to excellence in everything she does. Her parents see her as the family’s hope. Her father runs a modest cafe. Her younger brother, compared with her, is viewed as unambitious. Her mother sees herself as responsible for supporting her daughter, although that support often seems self-serving and even controlling – more of a helicopter mom.
In flashbacks of the immediate past, we see that everything was coming up roses for her in the U.S. She had a steady international lawyer boyfriend, Hyeon-jun Song (Joon-woo Han), who she intended to marry. But suddenly Seok-ryu is back Korea, much to her parents’ surprise. Her childhood friend Seung-hyo Choi (Hae-in Jung), who was never her boyfriend, is secretly delighted.
There is much mystery around Seok-ryu’s abrupt abandonment of her career and her return home. We believe for much of the drama that it is a failed romance, but there are hints throughout the story that the reasons are deeper than that. She needs support, which Seung-hyo can provide, but will she be able to lean on him to support her in her life-long dreams?
Seung-hyo runs a successful architectural firm with very devoted employees, whose stories become subplots in the story. The firm is prosperous but experiences project failures because its personnel are still naive in the ways of the world. Seung-hyo is industrious and talented, wins awards and is loved by all. We learn, however, that a driving force in his life is his secret love for his childhood companion, Seok-ryu. Because he believes it is an unrequited love, he is afraid to tell her how he feels.
As in all Korean rom-coms worth their salt, there are mothers of the young adult characters who are in an ongoing competition with one another about the relative success of their children. From the opening scene, Seok-ryu’s mother (the opinionated Mi-sook Na (Ji-young Park )) is bragging about her successful daughter who will be imminently marrying a young, successful Korean American man.
The mother of Seung-hyo (Hye-sook Seo (Young-nam Jang)) is intended target of this bragging. Hye-sook has been employed by the Korean Foreign Affairs office. In flashbacks, we learn that her chosen career, with its many postings in foreign countries, left her with very little time for her son as he was growing up, or for her overworked and devoted emergency doctor husband Kyung-jong Choi (Seung-joon Lee). As the drama opens, she is ostensibly waiting for a new appointment, with time to hang out with her women friends and brag of her son’s accomplishments.
Hye-sook’s chronic absence from home drove Seung-hyo closer to Seok-ryu and her family – he is like a son to Seok-ryu’s parents. The competing mothers are their own subplot, but the essence of this K-drama is the inseparable Seok-ryu and Seung-hyo, and their see-sawing relationship as they reunite as adults. The tilt and speed of their relationship is both uneven and bumpy, as many life issues emerge as the story unravels.
As Seok-ryu arrives home, rudderless and unsure what to do with her life, to the disappointment and alarm of her parents, there is a flashback to Seung-hyo. We learn that as a high school stand-out swimmer, Seung-hyo had an accident and could no longer compete in what may have been an Olympic career. Seok-ryu challenges him, cajoling, pleading and nagging him to get his act together and go on with his life. She pulls him out of a downward spiral, and gets him on the road to physical and psychological recovery.
In the present day, after her return to Korea, Seok-ryu is also facing overwhelming circumstances; obstacles because of the expectations of her family, and and some serious, possibly life-threatening personal challenges. It is her turn to receive tireless support from Seung-hyo. The see-sawing relationship of this couple does not prevent them from leaning on each other at times of need. They are reliable partners throughout the story in this respect.
Our main two protagonists have a childhood friend Mo-eum Jeong (Ji-eun Kim), who is well aware of Seung-hyo’s adoration for Seok-ryu, and even digs up a time capsule on the grounds of their high school, in which Seung-hyo once deposited a letter declaring his love. Confronted with the letter, Seung-hyo attempts to minimize and excuse the feelings he once put in writing, while in reality, his feelings are exactly the same as they were back in high school.
It is this sort of (nearly) love confession-episode that drives the viewer crazy. Obstacles continue to impede the path of true love, along with other issues, such as the appearance of Seok-ryu’s former fiancé, who flies in from the U.S. to try to re-kindle their romance. Also, Seung-hyo’s ex-girlfriend Tae-Hui Jang (Ji-hye Seo), a fellow architect and a former colleague, enters the romantic quagmire by accepting an offer for architectural work with Seung-hyo’s firm.
Mo-eum, the friend and third wheel in this relationship, has her own love story that provides some real comedy and poignancy. After a series of silly predicaments, she falls for Dan-ho Kang (Ji-on Yoon) a straightforward, honest reporter who has been covering Seung-hyo’s meteoric rise in the architecture scene. Dan-ho has assumed the role of father for his little niece Yeon-du Kang (Ji-yu Shim), in the time since Yeon-du’s parents (his brother and sister-in-law) were killed in a car accident.
Mo-eum, who works as an emergency medical technician, navigates several physical encounters with both criminals and patients. In one case, she cleverly captures a mentally-challenged guy, while Dan-ho, in self-defense mode, literally falls on his face trying. Early in their friendship, Mo-eum is also the maybe-girlfriend who is becoming very fond of her maybe-boyfriend’s spunky niece, and there are some endearing scenes of this relationship developing. The same is true of Mo-eum’s mother Jae-sook Do (Geum-soon Kim), who agrees to babysit Yeon-du, and clearly would like to be a grandma.
Ji-yu Shim as Yeon-du, a five- or six-year-old, shines brightly in this role. She is portrayed as kid-like, but capable of a kind of compassion for her dad that is well beyond her years. Ji-on Yoon as Dan-ho plays his role as young and dorky, but honorable in his dual roles as a serious journalist and a devoted father. Ji-eun Kim as Mo-eum Jeong shows a tough bad-ass side in her role as an emergency medical technician, which presents opportunities for some cleverly-executed physical comedy.
The key couple Seung-hyo (Hae-in Jung),) and Seok-ryu (So-min Jung) have chemistry and likeability as the lifelong friends who almost miss their chance to be partners. Hae-in Jung is an experienced and well-known film and drama actor who has skillfully portrayed some complex characters/romantic partners in dramas including Something in the Rain and One Spring Night. So-Min Jung has also acted in numerous dramas and films, most recently in the 2022 two-part Alchemy of Souls.
The writing by Hae-eun Shin is meticulous in accounting for the fates of other important characters as the story closes. The two lovers have learned the emotional maturity to reach out with honesty to their parents and other family members and heal past rifts, while taking the next steps together as a couple.
Seok-ryu (aided perhaps by her Cal Berkeley training to think outside the box) deals frankly with her family about the past, particularly in articulating how her unwanted role as the family’s only hope has been a source of constant pressure and debilitating stress which possibly endangered her life. Her determination to reject the hamster wheel of corporate life and move forward in a more creative path is also a lesson for her loved ones that they can change their strict definition of their family roles and support each other better in the future.
At the same time, Seung-hyo shows compassion toward his angst-ridden mother and his emotionally-distant father, helping them to heal their relationship as he separates himself from them as an adult. He helps them gain stability for the future as he also steps into a new role.
The critical take-away in this romantic drama is two-fold: One is the karma that may not be apparent; and that life plays out in strange ways that we cannot foretell or see. The other is the notion of how true friendship can save us; especially, how growing up with someone and spending time understanding their feelings can form a foundation on which to build a lasting romantic love.
While a bit frustrating at times, Love Next Door has a satisfying ending. Despite, or perhaps because of the adversity, Seok-ryu and Seung-ho deepen and strengthen their long-term relationship. The audience can be joyful despite the inevitable frustrations and plot twists of the story. Oh, and perhaps, with great parents like Dan-ho and Moe-hum, daughter Yeon-du will make it to Cal Berkeley. Who cares about Stanford and the Ivy League, anyway?